Ever wondered why you bother to use Twitter? Well like everything, there’s great excitement at something new and there could have been many reasons why you decided to sign up in the first place. But why did you stay? Chances are, Psychology has the answers.
The first ever tweet. Was yours as exciting?
After you’ve survived the first month (remember 60% of users quit within this period) and the initial eagerness has worn off, what then? Well you’ll have found your use for Twitter and I’m pretty sure you’ll fall into one of these four categories;
The Lurker
You make up 40% of the Twitterverse and have this unquenchable thirst for gossip. You probably signed up during the Red Carpet era and love to see your favourite celebrities argue.
The Business Mind
You either work in Social Media or you’re promoting your own business. You’ve realised that, if used well, Twitter can make you money. You’re now trapped though; checking Twitter has become part of your daily routine, checking Twitter has become like checking your email or reading your weekly trade mags.
The Addict
For reasons unbeknown to yourself you can’t stop checking your Twitter feed. Even on a slow news day you’re spending more and more time in the Twitterverse and it’s becoming a tough habit to break.
The Social One
You’re trying really hard to be interesting, posting in the hope that it gets you some attention. You’re bored and unfulfilled, and are trying to fill the gap.
In this post I’ll be talking about the latter. It relates to the social gratification we get by using Twitter. At the turn of the century, we have never been so connected, but paradoxically alone. The tight knit community is dead. Can social media fill a void that modern life often leaves unfilled?
Harry Harlow provided unique understanding of human behaviour.
Starting in the late 1950s, a controversial American psychologist, Harry Harlow began social isolation experiments with rhesus monkeys. In his classic study he separated baby monkeys from their mothers and slowly discovered the artificial conditions that best mimicked a mother’s love. Harlow exposed the importance of social relationships in the maintenance of our health and started a ball rolling that still rolls today. We use Twitter in substitute for conventional social relationships. And like Harlow discovered that monkeys could remain psychologically normal by substituting their mother for a wire model covered in terrycloth; we can fulfil our social quota using social media.
The term Social Intercourse, in short, refers to the interactions that we have with other human beings every day. The related concept of stimulus hunger arose from the work that started with Harlow. Physical intimacy is the most valuable form of stimulus, but a tweet is still a much diluted form of stimuli. In large amounts could it make a viable substitute?
So every person has a quota of social interaction that they need to fill each day. Too little too often will inflict damage upon us, whilst at the same time, too much can also be damaging. In adults sensory deprivation brings forth mental disturbances which will lead to physical illness. The amount of social intercourse needed varies from person to person; each interaction is referred to as a ‘stroke’. A movie actor may require hundreds of strokes each week from anonymous admirers to fill their quota, while a scientist may keep physically and mentally healthy on just one stroke per year from a respected master.
Solitary confinement is dreaded by prisoners, even those hardened to physical brutality.
It’s all about the value we put on each stroke, the number we need each day, and the deficit that the person has. Bringing this back to social media once more, Twitter provides users with a chance to make up any stimulus deficit. So I put this to you, when you feel the most deprived of social intercourse, that’s when you find yourself most active in social media.
Each interaction with twitter is a stroke to your social being. They vary in magnitude, but even just reading a tweet has some value. Studies have even shown that people do not really care if people do not respond when you tweet something. People perceive that they are still being listened to, despite the lack of direct interaction. If someone perceives they are being heard, then they are being stroked. And remember; the smaller the strokes, the more you probably need. This goes a little way into explaining how an addiction can form and behaviour can be conditioned. But that’s a topic for another day.
So in summary, if you really want to bring down Twitter, make it concrete that no one is reading your tweets. If you find yourself on Twitter more than you want to be, go and get a hug, it might just be all the social intercourse you needed.